Thick or thin?

Gay men used to be advised to use thicker condoms for anal sex, sold as ‘extra strong’ or ‘ultra strong’. But research now shows regular strength (thinner) condoms are no more likely to break than thicker condoms. That’s good news because thinner condoms give the wearer more sensation and are sold in more places. In fact, if a  condom breaks it’s usually because it wasn’t used properly – not because of how thick or thin it was. Click here for how to avoid condoms breaking or coming off.

If you still prefer to use thicker condoms, here are examples - Condomi Strong, Durex Ultra Strong, Mates Super Strong, HT Special Strong and Boys Own.

The right size

Men’s dicks come in different shapes and sizes – and so do condoms. There’s 1.5cm difference between the widest and narrowest condom and some can be over 4cm longer! Are you using the right size? Too small and a condom can split (and be uncomfortable). Too big and it can slip off.

The packet usually gives measurements of the condoms inside.

If you want smaller rubbers look out for those called ‘trim’ or ‘snug fit’ or these brands – Durex Closefit, Mates Conform, Pasante Trim.

If you want wider or longer rubbers look out for those called ‘XL’ or ‘Magnum’ or these brands – Durex Comfort XL (longer and wider), Condomi XXL, Trojan Magnum XL (longer).

It can be easier finding different sizes online than in shops.

Condom quality

Look for these symbols on the packaging -  the British Standards kitemark and CE mark.

Any condom at home or abroad without one or both of these cannot be relied to meet European standards. If travelling abroad take your own condoms as condoms (and lube) can be hard to find and may not be of good quality.

Condoms last about 5 years inside their wrappers.  Check the ‘best before’ date on the wrapper - after this date it’s more likely to break (although any condom is better than no condom). Heat, sunlight, damp and getting crushed all weaken condoms so try not to keep them in the sun, near warm objects or in trouser pockets for a long time.

Non-oxynol 9

Some condoms are coated with spermicide (a chemical that kills sperm). One called Non-oxynol 9 should be avoided in condoms and lube as it irritates the inside lining of the arse making it easier for HIV to be passed on. Packaging should say if Non-oxynol 9 is in the product.

Latex or non-latex?

Some men are allergic to the latex condoms are made from. If so, one brand called Durex Avanti Ultima is recommended as it’s made from polyisoprene and not latex.