Here are some tips to help prevent this from happening.
- Using lots of lube… and the right sort
Using plenty of lube both on the condom and around and up the arse of the man being fucked makes it less likely the condom breaks (or slips off). Water-based (or silicone-based) lubes are the only ones it’s safe to use with condoms (oil-based lubes weaken rubber). - Using the right size condom for the cock
If a condom is too tight it’s more likely to split (and will be more uncomfortable to put on and wear). Look out for longer, wider condoms (eg Durex Comfort XL). - Keeping air out
Try to avoid air getting trapped underneath the condom as you put it on – this can make the condom break. If your condom has a teat at the tip, squeeze the air out with finger and thumb as you roll the condom on. - Trying not to stretch the condom
Stretching or rolling the condom before it’s on a cock makes it more likely to break. - Using one condom at a time
Using two condoms (one on top of another) isn’t safer. In fact, the extra friction of two condoms rubbing against each other make them more likely to break. - Changing the condom
Studies show that after about half an hour of fucking a condom’s more likely to break. So check now and then it’s OK, add more lube and consider putting on a fresh condom after about 30 minutes. - Using quality condoms
Only use condoms that have one (preferably both) of these symbols: the British Safety Standard kitemark and the CE symbol.
These mean a condom is of a good standard to use. Also, check the ‘best before’ date stamped onto the wrapper. If the date has expired, don’t use the condom (unless you have no others to hand). If travelling abroad take condoms and lube with you as they can be hard to find or not good enough quality.
- Storing your condoms properly
Condoms need to be kept away from damp or hot places, out of direct sunlight and shouldn’t be crushed. Keeping them in your trouser pocket, wallet, glovebox of a car, etc. can weaken them and they’re more likely to break.
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